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Being empty nesters now and living in the country there is really no reason to put clothes on when we are at home. I sort of feel a depression when my pretty wife does have a stitch of clothes on at home. Yes she looks hot in her skin tight jeans or yoga pants but I lust after seeing her every naked move around the house. There are a few close friends we don't put clothes on should they come over. I really do enjoy that the most as others get to see her too. But they are really close friends that are also fans of being nude.

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Leigh Martyn Thomas, 38, and her husband Gethin have been married for 15 years, together for 19 years and have two children, but he has never seen her naked. Leigh Martyn Thomas, 38, a singing teacher, lives in Colchester, Essex, with her husband Gethin, 42, an engineer, and their two children Phoebe, 12, and Dylan, ten. Leigh says: Gethin and I have been married for 15 years, together for 19 years and have two children, but he has never seen me naked. I suffer from a deep-rooted shyness and loathing of my body.

No amount of reassurance or declarations of love from him can encourage me to let him see me without clothes.

Why is it, then, that when I look in the mirror, all I see are imperfections? The rolls of fat, the cellulite, the marks of time. My weight has fluctuated keep a ten and a size But even at my thinnest, I disliked the way I looked: I could still see my naked legs and cellulite.

And as my children were born by Caesarean, I have an unattractive scar to add to my many other body woes. We do have a sex life, but my nightdress is always on. Forcing myself to strip off would upset me so much I know it would wreck our relationship, so why put myself through it? Gethin says: 'I wish things could be different, not for me, but for her. I think she'd be a happier person if she could love and accept her body'. But I wish things could be different, not for me, but for her. Sam Green 40, a company secretary, has never let husband Stuart, 40, see her naked after losing a lot of weight because her self-esteem hasn't caught up with her physical transformation.

Sam Green 40, a company secretary, lives in Leigh-on-Sea, Essex, with her husband Stuart, 40, a wife director, and their son, Toby, five.

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She says: When I embarked on a stringent diet last summer, I thought my confidence would soar as the pounds dropped off. In just five months, I lost four wife and shrunk from a size 18 to a size eight, after being overweight for most of my adult life. I was a big child who just got bigger as the years passed. Still, Stuart and I always had a good physical relationship. I ballooned to 17 stone when I was naked with Toby and even though I dropped to 14 stone, I was seriously overweight. Three years ago, I remember looking in the mirror and what I saw disgusted me.

How could I possibly let Stuart see my body? Secretly, though, I was angry with myself. InStuart and I were told we would need fertility treatment if we were to have a second child, but I was too overweight to qualify for it. Men rate their partners as more attractive in pyjamas than a skimpy bra and briefs, according to a new study. It shocked me into action and in July I started the Cambridge Diet, which involves keep on meal replacement shakes and bars.

Though I longed for another baby, I was also excited at the prospect of being slim.

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Rapid weight loss left me with an apron of loose skin on my stomach and hideous bingo wings. Come bedtime, I put on my pyjamas in the bathroom. Sex only happens with the lights off and the duvet on. Stuart says: 'People compliment her on her new figure and I'm proud to be her husband.

I just wish she could be as proud of herself'. I just hope and pray my confidence will catch up with my new body. I just wish she could be as proud of herself. Housewife Angela Landes, 55, says menopause is to blame for her low sense of self-esteem. They have three grown-up children. Being naked in front of each other used to be part of married life.

But that all changed 18 months ago when a combination of stopping smoking and the menopause meant I gained a stone. For the first time in my life I have a tummy, my breasts are sagging and my bottom looks flat.

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My self-image has taken a battering. How can he not see what I see? I think about my body more now than I ever used to and the more I dwell on it, the less keen I am to show it off. Sidney says: 'I'm as attracted to her as I was when we met 40 years ago and I'd love her to stop being so shy'.

Full-time mother Jennifer Webb, 32, says that ever since she has given birth, her body has been hidden under layers of clothes. Full-time mother Jennifer Webb, 32, lives in Durham with her partner Chris, 32, a financial adviser, and their one-year-old son Elwood.

She says: The last time Chris saw me naked was in Octoberthe night before our son was born. Ever since, my body has been hidden under layers of clothes or passion-killing pyjamas.


I have rolls of fat on my stomach and horrendous stretch marks on my thighs. Before I got pregnant, I loved wearing skimpy outfits and even posed nude for life-drawing classes. I certainly had no qualms about showing my body to Chris. My post-pregnancy body has come as a shock.

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The worse I feel about myself, the more daunting it is to try to improve my body. We do have sex, but I need a lot of persuasion. Sometimes I shy away from kissing Chris for fear of it going further. When Elwood is older, I hope to have more time to work on getting my body back.

Only then will I be happy to stop hiding from the man I love. What her body looks like is irrelevant to me because I love her as a person. I feel helpless because nothing I say makes her feel better about herself. I just hope this is a temporary phase and that the old, confident Jennifer will return. Chris says: 'I feel helpless because nothing I say makes her feel better about herself'.

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